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Donald Cox
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Hi Don
Welcome aboard!! Hope you will investigate the site and feel like
contributing. Any memories of school, teachers, pupils etc are most
welcome. You will find some of the threads completely off the wall but
still entertaining!!! Some info abour yourself and when you were at the
Tech would be useful.
Look forward to hearing from you, have fun and enjoy!!
Cheers
Steve
Jan. 3
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Hi Steve
Thank you for your welcome. I was at the Tech from Sept '57 until Sept
'63 when I left to join P.O. telephones, but that's another story. I
lived in the Larkhall part of Bath then and can remember my first day at
Weymouth House like it was yesterday. I also remember dashing about
between the Tech College, St James Hall, some rooms at the top end of
Abbey Green, the Old Gaol at Twerton and the huts at the bottom of
Brougham Hayes.
Teachers I remember when I started were: Mr. Griffiths (English), Mr.
Burch, I think that's how he spelt it (French), "Jimmy" Edwards P.T.
(and General Science if my memory serves correctly), "Killer Keating
(Maths), "Jammy" James (Geography),"Ray" Jones (woodwork) and the
wonderful Peter Coard (Art). Later on I was taught by: "Bill" Hayman,
"Wally" Hammond, Mr Ford, "Bevvers" Lloyd, "Dickie" Harbord, Mr. Webb,
"Jack" Leyshon, Mr. Pappin, Mr Minnikin, "Harry Mower, Mr. Cosnett, Mr
and Mrs Williams, Mrs Wynn, Mr Clayton (brickwork and masonary), Mr
Lewis (metal work), Mr Webb "Sid" Hingely (music), Mr Pappin (I'm not
sure about the spellings of some of these)and a load more whose names I
have forgotten.
I've become worse at remembering names as I have become older,
but some of my year-mates were: Terry Morgan, Mike Packer, Les White,
Terry Pegler, Gordon Boakes, Tim Merrett, Dave Speak (the last three
went to the P.O. with me), the Biggs twins, the Bail twins, Jolyon
Lacock, Trevor Ash, Rodney Strong, Chris Starr, Dallas Whittaker, Warren
Gundry and Barry Case. There are loads more buzzing around in my
memory, but I can't put names to the faces at present.
Like so many things in life it was a mixture of happy ,sad,
hilarious and frustrating experiences, although on balance I'm glad I
went there, it set me on course for the rest of my life so far.
That's enough for now I think, I'll leave you to wonder "who's he then?"
Regards Don Cox.
Jan. 4
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Hi Don
Wow!! That's some memory. I can also remember my first day at Weymouth
House and saying to the lad next to me that is was like Greyfriars when
all the teachers swept in with there caps and gowns!!
If you trawl through the threads you will see mention of all the
teachers you recall. Certainly Ben Coard was the subject of a recent
thread.
The only pupil I recall in your list was Tim Merrett, partly because of
Walcot Old Boys and his brother Neil was in the same year as me. Do you
remember a Mike Davis or Brian Johnson in your year?
I am sure some of the other members will welcome you soon, probably
still suffering from excess over the Yuletide!
Keep remembering
Cheers
Steve
Jan. 6
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Hi Don. How very nice to read your recollections.
So many people join the site and then 'Clam up'. I guess that I was a
couple of years ahead of you but most of the teachers you mention were
familiar, particularly, Bevvers, Dickie Harbor, Harry Mower, Pop Webb
and Taff Griffiths, incidentally I think that you and I are the only
ones to have mentioned the latter, cracking English
teacher!!!!!Incidentally, a while back there was a reunion at Beckington
and we all got together, Harry Mower was present and still instantly
recognisable although he said that he didn't recognise many of us, just
the names of the trouble makers!!!!!!!It was super to talk to him again
after all these years.
It's a bit of a coincidence that you joined the PO after school as I was
apprenticed to Telephone Rentals which included day release in those
days. I did two years of my ONC at Bristol College of Science and
Technology followed by my final year ONC and two years HNC at Yeovil
College as I completed my apprenticeship down there.
As you say the Weymouth House days were 'interesting' with all the
traveling around the City, it's a wonder we ever got any work done!! But
on the whole happy days, as you so rightly said we had our ups and
downs, but looking back I don't think I'd change any of it. It is only
with maturity that one realises the very sound foundation that all the
teachers gave us for our future lives. We owe them all a good
deal......................... Happy new year. Sticky.
Jan. 6
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Steve/John
Thanks for your replies, it's nice to "meet" others who have similar
memories of those times. I need to make a minor amendment to my list of
pupil names, it should have read Christopher Ash, not Trevor, sorry if
you're out there Chris.
As regards Mrs Williams, I was in one of her first English classes after
she joined the school, she certainly brightened the place up! I don't
think she could have been that much older than us and was having a crash
course in how to control a bunch of lively male tenagers at the time.
She proved to be an excellent teacher (in my humble opinion) and soon
got control of us. She spoke in perfect BBC (Oxford) English most of
the time, but if wound up would revert to her true (I think) Lancastrian
accent. She was aware of this foible and admitted as much to us,
needless to say, to exploit this became one of the class's aims. I
remember her trying to enthuse us into reading Shakespeare, particulary
the witch's scene from Macbeth. When Trevor Biggs used his latent
acting ability to "ham up" the lead witch role, which she had been
unwise enough to give him, most of us cried tears of laughter by the
end, including Mrs. Williams. Sadly, I understand she died in 2009.
Yes, I worked with both Neil and Tim Merrett on P.O. Telephones
and also my, nearly, name-sake Dave Cox, also an ex Tech boy. The P.O.
had a scheme in the first year of our apprenticeships to rotate us
around in 3 month placements so we got to fit 'phones, climb poles, dig
holes and install bits into exchanges. I had the misfortune to follow
behind Dave for some of this and each of the old boys I was with
insisted on calling me Dave. I gave up trying in the end and just
answered to it, a "Rodney" moment long before "Only fools and horses"
hit the screen.
I left B.T. when I was 50 and finished up some years later
teaching as an F.E. lecturer at Wiltshire College. (Service and Repair
of Motor Vehicles. And, I know it had nothing to do with 'phones). It
was then I began to put the qualities of the education I had received,
and the abilities of the those who had taught me at the Tech, into
perspective. By the time I got my chance to give teaching a go, the
pendulum of class room discipline standards had swung from the "only
breathe when I tell you" of our day to the "anything goes" of now. I
take my hat off to anyone who can spend a lifetime career at it and
survive with all their marbles intact.
Enough for now I think.
Don Cox.
Jan. 7
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Welcome aboard Donald,
Up to now your e-mail has only popped up when Eddy (my brother) forwards
all those rude jokes and other internet gems! Just think we grew up
together in Larkhall, attended the same church & scout troop and
even caught the 11 or 3 bus to Weymouth House. I pass your house in
Bradford on Avon on my way to the School of Infantry in Warminster quite
often. Good recollections. Last time we met must have been in the
First In & Last Out (now long closed).
I was in your ex neighbour's house two years back just before old Mr
Whitemore died. Spoke to Philip & Tim.
Although they have all been quiet (drunk?) recently this lot can stir
the 'leetle grey cells' of memory. Trawl through some old postings and
you will see where nostalgia leads.
Happy New Year to one and all.
Graham
Jan. 8
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Steve
Brian Johnson I think I do remember, a big lad with a shock of light
coloured curly hair if I'm right. Mike Davis, I don't think so,
although with my memory for names that's not saying much. I found my
lack of ability in this respect to be a major handicap in my, short
teaching career. " Hey you, wasyername, shut up," doesn't have quite the
same directness, or effect, as "Jamie, be quiet or leave."
Regards Don
Jan. 9
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Graham
There's enough potential recollection there to fill out many many
pages. When you're passing with a spare half hour drop in, Ed does. I
shouldn't like you to think that I'm the originator of the iffy stuff he
sends you, over time I've acquired numerous friends in B.T. and the
college world and they all feel a desperate need to send me "things" and
I pass some of them on. The trick is to find and delete the more
outrageous stuff before my wife finds it.
The reason I went to the tech in the first place is in some
measure due to you, I remember your description of the place, and what
it stood for, when you went there the year before me. When the 11+
selection was in progress my parents were asked to choose a preferred
school and went for the City of Bath Boy's School. However, in the
event my performance in the 11+ exams apparently left me on the border
line and I attended a daylong selection process (at the YMCA in Broad
Street) before the system decided what to do with me. I'm pretty sure
the panel comprised of the relevant secondary school headmasters and at
the final interview I was able to convince them to let me go to the
tech. I managed to persuade them that my parents had had second
thoughts about the grammar school and would be happy with the change.
So, it's all your fault.
Growing up then seemed to be a much more fulfilling experience
than it is now. I did find some of the subject material at school
irrelevant to what I thought I wanted to do, but eventually most of it
became of use sooner or later. Meanwhile, I learnt many additional
practical skills from the adults around me, particularly your patient
and long suffering dad and mine too and all the while Ed and I were
pulling things apart and learning from our numerous mistakes. And yes I
do remember your first car, the Heinkel bubble. Whilst Ed towed the
second one home behind his frog eyed Sprite, I drove the b***dy thing
from RAF Colerne married quarters after we had collected them. German
engineering at less than its best I think, I suppose it'd be worth a
fortune now if you still had it.
I'm glad I'm not young any more, I couldn't go through all that again.
Regards
Don
Jan. 10
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Cripes Donald,
How come I still get the blame for everything? I understand that Mum
& Dad put the Tech down as my 11+ first choice (I wanted City of
Bath Boys) as they wanted me to be an engineer. I had also got a
scholarship to the Art School and was bitterly disappointed about that
too. However once David Upton dropped me off in Abbey Green (he would
not be seen dead with a new boy!) and I braved the entrance I never
looked back. Fancy being the only 'A' Level student of my year to do Art
with Peter Coard. What more could anyone wish? Although life as a
primary school headmaster never taxed my engineering skills (except for
constant repairs & maintenance) I have no regrets about the Tech's
education. Kind of 'jack-of-all-trades' comes to mind.
Eddy found a picture of the Heinkel the other day. Tow rope and all.
That was the only car I ever sold for a profit.
I will drop in on spec one day. Is your caravan still outside?
Cheers
Graham
Jan. 10
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Graham
Caravanning and us parted company just over 4 years ago. We
gradually used it less and less in favour of more far flung destinations
which necessitated converting large amounts of jet fuel into CO2. The
decision was made, it went, my ageing 5 series Beemer went too and I
bought an MX5 rag top to play with instead. It makes me feel young
again, especially with the top down when I can feel the wind in my
hair(s, both of them). To find us; we're the second house on the left
with a plantation of Leylandii around the garden.
Peter Coard was something special, I remember in the Weymouth
house days him taking us out into Pierrepont street to draw some of the
architectural features of the ancient buildings there. Once he'd got us
going, he settled back in a doorway, puffing away on his pipe, and did
some drawings for himself. His style, which you probably remember
better than me, was to constructively criticise what you had drawn and
then to draw his suggested version on one of the corners of your paper.
Pencil, or ball point pen, it made no difference, he was always
brilliant. He was equally good at pottery and the other branches of his
subject too, I remember him painting scenery for a play which was
staged in Weymouth House in my early days. When I got to the 5th year I
had to abandon art because it didn't fit with the engineering based
study package I had selected. I went to ask Peter if there was any way I
could continue, he told me that I was one of several who had approached
him, that we could stay on after hours and he would teach us. I got an
extra O level because of this.
Years later I came across his "Vanishing Bath" books in paper
back form. I never could find vol 1, but was able to buy a very tidy
2nd hand copy of the hardback book containing all 3 volumes. In vol 3
he'd drawn my Dad's childhood home in Beechencliffe Place shortly before
it was demolished in the 60s, I was able to give him a copy of the book
for Christmas one year.
Peter was a very placid man, never lost his cool with anyone that I
remember, and aways had time to help you.
Regards. Don
Jan. 11
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Donald, I put up some nostalgic pictures to jog those
recollections! Cycling around Bath lanes- Charlcombe, Bannerdown &
elsewhere, cricket on the 'Back Fields', camping at Kelston, a rainy
Coronation Day with our B & W TV the main attraction for adults
(curtains drawn all day) but the grub (and boredom!) for us.
I can still recall Eddy & you tinkering with vehicles as I slaved
over my damned 'A' Level homework. Had forgotten you picked up the
Heinkel. It was my 21st Birthday gift from parents and of course I had
no licence! Took my test in it about a month later. The 20 stone
examiner stopped the test in the Circus as he said the vehicle was
unsafe! When I switched to the Austin 1100 I met a car coming the wrong
way down Cheap Street (it was one-way then) and reacted too slowly so
that was the second test knackered! Third time lucky. I think Eddy took
his and passed virtually on his 17th birthday!
We had a caravan holiday in 1968 but have never camped since. Prefer a 5
star hotel or self-catering now! Too soft. Hard to believe we are still
in the same house from 1967. Your Dad did some of the early electrics
here. Eddy only removed some wires when we revamped the kitchen two
years back. I think the shaver socket in the bathroom was his work. (I
have a beard so it rarely gets used now!)
Golly how time flies!
Graham
Jan. 12
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Graham
Thanks for sharing the pics, I've seen the bike one before (via Ed of
course) and gave my mum a copy of it and another one showing Holland Rd
with the building of our houses in progress. She's 88 now and lives in
Newquay to be near my sister Christine. The trouble is I email
Christine photos asking her to give mum copies, but she never gets them.
So it's down to print and post, a relatively costly business.
It is very fortunate that your dad was into photography, it has
prompted a lot of memories. I remember the Coronation party at "Briar
Cottage," I don't know when exactly that was because we actually watched
the events of the day on T.V. at the home of one of my dad's pals in
Englishcombe Lane, my first memory of the haunted fishtank. The choir
photo is one of many of the type I recall, if only they knew the rebel
that was hidden deep inside that angelic exterior. My mother's two
brothers and her father had all sung in their church choir, so I had no
chance of avoiding that fate when my time came. Another of my mother's
ambitions for me was that I should go to university, happily this
particular one remained unfulfilled because I was too thick to get the A
levels and equally importantly wild horses wouldn't have dragged me.
However, my Certificate in Education teaching qualification was Bath
University accredited, so whilst I was taking it I became one of their
students. Once I got the paperwork I presented her with a copy and was
able to say "There you are then mum, I did go to Uni after all." I was
60 on my following birthday. An interesting bi-product of this
is that the university considers me to be one of their alumni and I get
bombarded with emails and magazines to that effect. I even had a 'phone
call once from a current student who wanted me to tell him about my
memories of attending his university. He was a bit taken aback when I
told him that I'd never been near the place whilst a "student." But
that I remembered repairing the 'phones and switchboard in Holdoway's
site office when building had just started in the 60s and at many other
times after that once the place was up and running. I told him that in
my opinion the whole concept was a mistake and had ruined a large area
of valuable countryside. I felt sorry for him then and wished him
success with his studies. I'll bet he ticked the box marked "Don't ring
this one again" on my record.
Still, the way things are at the moment, university attendance
will soon become something only the wealthy and very bright will be able
to do, a bit like it was in our day I suppose.
That'll do for now I think, keep finding the photos.
Don.
Jan. 14
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Hi Donald, Pass my greetings on to your Mum &
Christine. Salutary to think that my folks would have been 100 last year
if they had lived. I recall he had a Voigtlander 'bellows' camera (last
seen with Eddy) and the photo papers were the offcuts from Admiralty
printings. The cloakroom at Briar Cottage doubled as a dark room. Woe
betide anyone who opened the door at the wrong moment!
Perhaps the two events ran together somehow as it was certainly
Coronation Day itself for the party.
'Beaker' Smith did his conjuring act for us too.
I agree re. choir. Remember the initiation of being dropped through the
grating into the crypt?
Those black cassocks were green with mould. Caddy did buy cream buns
after the massed choirs event in Bath Abbey though.
Harry Mower lived near the Balustrade and we had to be sure our caps
were on if he caught the 11 or 3 bus home.
I get circulars from Bristol University where I got my Degree. Only time
I have ever made use of the place was when I wanted to see a very rare
book. I can still use the library. All three of my kids and two of their
spouses have Degrees. We can muster two Firsts (not me)!!
Suspect the grandson will never afford the fees!
Jan. 16
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Graham
I’ll pass on your regards to my mum and Christine. My dad would have
been 103 in April, he made it to 98, he had 95 good years with a gradual
deterioration over the last three. Andrew, our one and only now 32,
went to Aberystwyth University to take an M eng. in software
engineering. He never came home and still lives in the town working for
the local council as an IT business systems manager. He is currently
half way through a masters degree in sports management at Cardiff
University, is heavily involved in the Welsh Amateur Rowing Association
and was able to persuade them to sponsor his course. Just as well
really, we sponsored his last one, the five years (one out in industry)
cost us the equivalent of two new BMW 520s as I remember telling him at
the time. Andrew is heavily into endurance sea rowing, the
forthcoming big event for this year is the Celtic Challenge in May, a
race from Arklow in Eire to Aberystwyth, 120 sea miles in about 20 hours
(crew of 12, 4 at a time rowing a celtic long boat). Long distance
cycling is another passion of his, last year was the Paris Brest race
when he did 1200km in 77hours. These interests all leave him too
exhausted to do much to his house, that’s where I come in (300 mile
round trip and we get to pay the bridge toll too, I'm starting to hint
that I'm becoming too old for it all..........). I still have
niggling doubts as to the value of the majority of university education
undertaken in this country, not least because of the seemingly small
proportion of graduates who actually get employment where they can
really use their degree. A lot of misdirected effort I suspect.
But, what do I know?
Don
Jan. 17
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Hi Donald, 95 good years is some innings. The last ones
come hard though. Judy's Dad made it to 93 and the last few months were
fairly awkward. Mum died after playing bowls when she was only 81. That
is the way to go for me!
Your lad sounds like a real adventurer! Good on him. Son (he is 39)now
in Cambridge went to Leeds, is a computer engineer and married a
forensic scientist. They have one son and she was just made redundant
by the stupid government. Who is going to test for DNA etc. now. Private
sector? Ha! ha! Oldest of twin daughters (Bath) went to Bournemouth
then UWE and is a District Nurse with a diabetes specialism. Next
grandchild due any day. Youngest (Bristol) went to UCE and is manager of
Farrow and Ball at Clifton. Her BA was probably the least use but she
is employed and happy. She is a runner. Blimey where did that gene come
from? I only did cross-country twice and that was my lot! One son-in-law
is a computer engineer and the other a computer technician in the Civil
Service. I never get IT problems! Up to now their education has paid
off. Especially the computer jobs. I do agree re. HE though. As a
primary head I think to cancel the 11+ was a mistake. Not everyone can
go to uni. We need the people who can make and do things. As for closing
the Tech. What twits. Even Dyson could not get Bath to revive the idea
of a technology college. Stupid. Biggest worry for son (and sons in law)
is the Asian Tiger. Especially India is churning out computer engineers
who work for peanuts. Not sure of grandson's future really (he is 2)
but hope that some high tech job will make him a future one day.
Cannot fault my own career and training (although I moaned like hell
once!) but the State paid for all that student beer & fags and so
far 14 years of Teachers Pension too!
Jan. 18
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Graham
I suspect your attitude towards sport is very similar to mine, it
holds little or no interest for me. This was a great disappointment for
my dear old dad, who couldn’t understand why I hated rugby and came
home from most games lessons with clean kit. Much later, he did take
pride in Andrew’s sporting successes by way of consolation.
As regards the education debate, I think the 1944 Butler act got
most things right for its time, especially the provision of technical
schools. The situation already existing in Bath found the LEA with a
functioning technical school; I bet they felt smug about that. It’s
sad that the one size fits all approach of the 1965 move to
comprehensives, apparently motivated more by political dogma than a
desire to improve education, started the dumbing down of state education
and the destruction of technical and grammar schools.
The situation in both FE and HE seems to me to be the tail
wagging the dog. Prospective students appear to select a course often
without a clear idea what use this might have in a future job. Better
surely to organise it so that people get a job, then undertake the
relevant training as in the days of student and craft apprenticeships.
I’m sure that I taught enough full-time motor vehicle students each year
to re-staff most of the garages in the college’s catchment area. The
majority came on the course because they’d become 16, didn’t want to
continue at school (and the school didn’t want them either), couldn’t
get a job or because the plumbing course was full up, but still had to
do something. Although most of them eventually passed the course, I
knew only a very few would go into the trade, a waste of their time and
of public money. By contrast the part-time (day release) students,
whilst usually a rowdy bunch, were keen to succeed because their bosses
were kicking them, and they were already motor mechanics. They also
gave me the added bonus that they often taught me almost as much as I
had taught them.
Meanwhile the politicians are still at it, I’m not sure Mr.
Gove’s brain is completely in gear, he seems to have a fixation about
substandard teachers. Perhaps he, and his lackey outfit OFSTED, should
first take a look at the many substandard parents who spawn the
substandard children who then disrupt and slow down the education
received by them and their peers. A disproportionate number of my
full-time M/V students seemed to come from this group, I could never get
them to shut up and concentrate for long. On my last day a couple of
them came to see me at the end of the session and said “Thanks Don,
you’ve been a brilliant teacher,” my reply was, “I’m amazed you think
so, you never listened to a bl**dy thing I said!”
Nuff said I think.
Don.
Jan. 19
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'morning Donald, Quite correct, although I played rugby
at the Tech and enjoyed tennis even outside school, sport is not my
thing. Would be fine if the pundits concentrated on the game, but all
they bang on about is personality stuff. (With the lack of that,
especially among knuckle-dragging soccer players, I get bored stiff.)
Take out the money and make it amateur again then all would be better. 4
of my 6 kids & spouses work out, run, swim & play soccer so I
am outvoted here! 2 even have Olympics tickets. Happy to baby sit. Much
more fun!
Gove, like education ministers back to Maggie, do not care a jot. Their
kids never use the system (and if they do the 'old boy network' sees
them okay). Look at Maggie's weird kids! They arrive, make some sound
bites, change as much as they can, and push off again. My 31 years of
teaching (plus training) saw constant turmoil. Some useless ex
colleagues (poor heads or teachers) became OFSTED inspectors! Those who
can teach, those who can't teach teachers! Still applies. Cannot agree
entirely about degenerate families. Some of my best success came from
this group. Recall teaching children of ex pupils who sought my school
out as they said I had turned them around. It was the barrack room
lawyer parent who was too mean to pay for a private education that
hassled me. My school in Corsham endured the first 'appeal' in Wiltshire
when a family tried to get their child moved up a year against mine and
the governors' wishes. Hours of wasted time! I won (just as well as I
had a letter of resignation written if I did not!). Also was
oversubscribed so had parents trying to get places even to reception
classes of 30!! I gather Corsham Primary School will be the first
academy in the area. That would never have happened if I was in charge!
Still all ancient history. Unless we get politicians with a united
vision of the future 'we are all doomed!'
Jan. 21
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Graham
Apologies for the lack of reply, my desktop has become unwell and I'm
running on a slightly outclassed laptop until we can get it to the
expert in sunniest (I joke) Aberystwyth. I too had some successes with
the lower end of the academic and social food chain, although, since
most of my students came from that source, it was almost inevitable that
any success would involve them. One such was an under 16 lad ( the
college was supposed to only teach 16+, but we taught some school age
students who couldn't/wouldn't attend school) who came from what we once
called a broken home, now pretty much a normal home, and was being
brought up by his father. After a lot of effort by all concerned, he
gained the required qualifications and got himself an apprenticeship. A
few months later I came across him and his father at a social
gathering, his dad sought me out to thank me for my contribution in
turning his lad around and I walked away feeling a couple of millimetres
taller. Imagine my disappointment a year later when I found his
picture on the front page of a local newspaper because he'd been banged
up for armed robbery!
At least the parents you describe apparently attached value to
education, few of ours did. Parent teachers evenings were a joke, only a
couple of parents ever turned up and they were the ones who's kids took
it seriously and who we didn't really need to see.
Originally I went to the college as a workshop technician,to play cars
and get paid for it after leaving B.T. Gradually I got persuaded to take
the odd class and the next thing I'm doing it full time and up to my
armpits in lesson plans, teaching observations etc. I can't say it came
anywhere close to telephone engineering, or any sort of engineering for
that matter, but I survived about 5 years of actual teaching and I too
have a teachers pension.
As for the ongoing political debate about education standards, I
think that a slightly updated version of your quote is appropriate.
"Those who can do, those who can't teach and those who can't teach
become OFSTED inspectors."
Don
Jan. 27
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Hi Donald, Judy and I are still awaiting the call from
daughter Anya to say that grandaughter is here! Eight days late. Just
like a Priest to be out of time!
Recall my frequent comments at staff & governors' meetings that we
should announce an evening 'jumble sale' and when the queue enters the
building, lock the doors and say "actually it is parents' evening!" (A
head I worked for had inadvertent 'pull' when he announced a parents'
showing of the sex education TV programmes for 7 year olds in the 1960s.
The school was packed!) My way the correct parents would be in place!
Mind you some of the others needed ejection! One year as I was locking
up after a parents' evening I found one couple had slipped back into a
classroom after the teacher had finished and gone home and were going
through the other kids' books. This was 11.30pm and they were surprised
that I got so angry (or that I had a home of my own!!) Still on the
whole I would not change as it was a better career than some others.
Rewards were intangible but at least I tried. (One young mother (ex
pupil) when about 28 years old said she could remember my purple tie,
red Beetle and 'Ancient Egyptians'. What an accolade for a year's
work!!) Even more laudable is the work of our Tech teachers. As a lazy
b****r I am sure that I would never have made the grade without their
stimulation. There were times when I was mugging up for 'A Levels'
(especially on summer evenings) that the sound of you and Eddy tinkering
with those vehicles outside my window made me doubt if I was doing the
right thing! Down the line, secure family life, no debts and the leisure
to write this shows that I did!
Jan. 30
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Donald, Sorry to hear about your mother's death. Please
accept our condolences and pass them on Christine and the family.
Graham & Judy
Feb. 14
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